I guess that everybody knows that procrastination is not the real thing. Why? Because sooner or later we need to face a problem and deal with it. I know, it is not easy to face it, but anyway, if we manage our tasks and challenges now, we will feel refreshed and energized.
Just Try It
Always thinking about your options, ways how to avoid doing this or that, creates a burden for us. We carry with us constant worries, how it is going to be, or what kind of consequences can be. It is better to try and see how we can finish what we started. We procrastinate with our plans to tell somebody how we appreciate them, how do we love someone. We think that our lives will better after one or few months, after New Year or retirement.
Best Time is Present
Best thinkers and writers told that the best time is now. Time to start the new job, lose weight, find friends, fix your bed, learn the original language, or get rid of old things which clutter your closets and minds.
Of course, it is great not to try water with both feet. You need to make plans, contemplate it, but not whole eternity. Time is a precious thing. We can not buy it or save it in a safety deposit box. Sometimes, when we wait too long, our opportunities can be slim. Taking action is the best thing, which will move you from the dead point. You know this old saying that Rome not built in a few days. Everything starts with small steps.
Do Not Postpone What You Want to Do
It is excellent when you can be polite with yourself, but at the same time encourage and push yourself towards the desired goal. I do not know anybody happy postponing things, which were close to heart.
Live your life now. Enjoy every minute of it. Do that you always dreamed do, because the latter can be other situations or possibilities can disappear. Of course, life always opens new doors after closing old ones.
If we want to reach something, it does not matter what, we need to have the right mindset. Picking right thoughts, we move in the right direction. Our mindset consists of beliefs, ideas, values, habits, opinions, identity. It means how do we analyze and interpret what we see and feel the experience. Our mindset has a significant influence on our life events and consequences from it. If we think that we can achieve everything, we will succeed. Of course, we need to take action. Sitting on the bench in the park is suitable for a short time. However, to accomplish your dreams and reach your goals takes more as honest thought about what do we want.
Using the power of imagination; we can reach heights, which were extending far up for us before. The power of visualization proved thousands if not millions, of times. Most of all champions before the competition in their heads have the full image of what is going to be. They go after one move to another and imagine themselves, how they reach victory, how people congratulate them. This movie in their minds creates the ability to believe in themselves, concentrate, and perform in the best way as possible.
Before sleep, your mind is relaxed. Continually repeating the same sentences, what you want to achieve, penetrates your mind. When your unwanted thoughts wish to take over, you gently turn to your active sentences, which will deeper and deeper fulfill your ideas.
It is easy to let your life get by, flow with him as in river flows a leaf. Famous wise people live lives, too, but they do things differently. If you want to reach in your life more as to be passive and stay at the same level, it is advisable to have good examples to look. These examples can be everywhere, your ancestors, grandparents, teachers, people, who lived a hundred years ago but left immense knowledge, hiding in books.
Surround yourself with people, with whom you can have great advice. It does not matter if you go to listen to lessons or listen to their discoveries and teachings from audiobooks on the phone. Your head occupied with thoughts, which will enrich your life, and you see everything from a different perspective.
A famous video game creator Jane McGonigal stated that playing video games is beneficial. It helps us fight depression. People acquire secret identities in video games. They can imagine that they are active and creative. It gives the brain a positive stimulus. It pushes us to think and reevaluate the situation. Games are different because they can stimulate your mind or drive to the phantasy world where you will stay without knowing a real one.
Overall, who wants to deal with somebody angry or unhappy? Sometimes, it is a person who can not take care of himself or herself because he or she let emotions to rule and control the whole situation. I mean they do not know ways how to clear minds, relax, and turn things in a positive direction. There are so many books where you can learn how to meditate. You can watch YouTube videos were plenty of techniques on how to clear mind. The meditation teaches us how to see ourselves from outside when we gently shift focus back from wandering thoughts to calming them. It lets your higher yourself take control of your rebellious mind.
If we could find contentment with what we have; we would be happy and relaxed. Why? There are no worries about the past or future. We live in the present moment and enjoy what we have. Turning to values such as the serving for people, helping each other, or thinking how future generations will live after us will give more pleasure and comfort — nothing wrong to have beautiful things. Anyway, it is better to choose quality over the measure. You will feel better because there is a difference between the best things what money can buy and things, which do not have real worth. I always wonder, why people keep crystal dishes in closets and eat from second plates? Why not enjoy a simple meal from the beautiful plate and drink filtered water from crystal glass?
Our attitude toward what is going in our lives makes our days pleasant or miserable. Choosing the positivity in life helps to get friends, make peace with ourselves, and inspire others. Maybe it is not easy to believe, but it is true. Why? Try to do one experiment. Think about two things at once. For example, a vacation in your yard or vacation in Hawaii. How it goes? I guess you can think for once just about one thing.
It is a belief what if we change our character, we can improve our ability to attract diseases. Regarding Ayurveda, ancient medicine in India, it is a belief that jealousness attracts oncological diseases, weakens the immune system, revenge leads to throat illness and disturbance of sleep. If somebody is prone to worry too much, it can attract stomach, skin, and heart’s unhealthy changes.
goals or at least that kind of computer to buy, it is better to select professionals. Besides it, choosing from a few options, we would get a better outcome.
or maybe for others too.
It means that we have the right to be unhappy or mad at somebody. However, it does not change anything. Of course, there are plenty of nuts who complain about how the world is unfair to them, that nobody loves them and so on. Later on, they go on the rampage destroying innocent people’s lives.
Our life can be compared to the sand clock. Seconds, minutes, hours go down always. They disappear without asking for permission. Nobody asks us if we want it or not. Understanding, that this process will end sooner or later, why not enjoy every minute here, on this precious Earth. Our future is far away, the past is behind us, but this day is ours now. Famous writers remind us to linger in the garden, smell roses, do not miss sunsets or what is better sunrises. If we do not rush, we can see more details clear, feel our existence more sharply.
We cannot be at the same time in the future or past. Why? Because thinking about what it was or will be, gives us just suggestions, worries, or thoughts about what could be in another way. We do not provide a time machine. I know that Apple computers have it. Anyway, it is just the name. This particular second, the minute is a real thing. Enjoy it, give thanks for it that you are alive and live your day in the best way as possible.
Discipline and awareness, what kind of goals are ahead, give us push forward. Nobody at the end of life will be happy remembering about time, which was spent on the couch watching TV. The sense of accomplishment after finishing difficult but required tasks will fulfill us with pride and joy. Why? Because we will be in charge of our lives and nobody could tell us what we spend our precious on Earth doing nothing.
Habit is a pattern of something doing again and again, not thinking and feeling how and why it happens. For example, people like to shorten their nails cutting it with their tooth. Not so lovely view for somebody who sees this situation. Habits to be late, lie for themselves, scratch nose, or spend time on the couch is just a few from all variety our behavior. Look around at first. It is easier to see the bad habits of other people compared with yourself.
Everybody has dreams, small or big. It does not matter what kind of ideas they are. It is yours. Routine in life can hide your visions. Tasks and worries can make your dreams to float away from you. To be alert and keep yourself in the right direction, is a good idea to have a vision board. For example, you want to visit a particular show or place. There so much information about every object, such as pictures or descriptions from newspapers or magazines. Pin these cute pieces of your desired object to the board and check it as much as possible. In your subconscious mind will be images of your destination. If you always walk slouching or you are shy to dance openly, pick pictures with an expression of these actions, which you would like to turn to the new habits.
It is an excellent thing to tell your good friends or people who you trust about your intentions. They can help to keep you on the track. If you do not have them, it is okay. You have the best support in the world: yourself. Give a big smile for yourself, tell yourself I love you, and move on. For everybody, the time changing habits and speed are different.
The vacation is an excellent occupation for children and adults. The reaction is different because children can enjoy every minute of life. Adults restricted by routine and rules. They can not so quickly transfer from one condition to another. They lay on the beach and at the same time, think about the job. Of course, not everybody is a maniac and perfectionist. However, plenty of people still think about the situation. Some of them answer emails. It shows that individuals cannot adequately relax and forget their jobs. Do you believe that it was a problem with society when hardworking people valued and somebody who does not have an office job, is a loser?
vital to your topics. Nobody influences you because you are far away from job place or the same house or apartment.
Inspirations are engines for progress and the birth of various creations. It creates miracles such as St. Peter’s Basilica in Rome or Fr. Lloyds Wright house on the waterfall. What is your biggest inspiration in life?
changed in the way what pleases the main public at a particular time.
give us different possibilities in our lives. Fortunately, people if they use their minds, they can achieve almost everything.