I guess you wonder what I mean that you treat yourself in the right way. We are told that we need to love all people and that we are supposed to help everybody if they ask for something or need us. Nothing wrong is with it. Not so good is when we forget ourselves making other people’s priorities more vital than ours.

Treat yourself in a good way

Live balanced life

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Later or sooner, when we forget ourselves, later or sooner, it shows in our relationships, bodies, and faces. Our productivity and ability to perform things slow down. Not having proper rest for yourself, eating as fast as possible, and trying to be pleasant for everybody take a toll on us. It is best when we get back what we gave to somebody. Because later or sooner, we will feel that someone is using us. It is not a pleasant feeling. It may be challenging to ask for help or schedule things to make time for yourself, but it is worth it. It contributes to believing that we are in control of our lives and can decide what suits us. Of course, people who surrounded us and used to have the ability always to be rescued will be disappointed, but so what? Who cares? Treat yourself in the right way.

Can you be happy too much?

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It is a lot better to be happy and content with yourself instead of trying to please everyone.  The world will spin, seasons will change each other, and Christmas will be here again and again. Unfortunately, we can not turn the clock back and change events and how we behave. Be happy now. It is never will be too much happiness around us.

Being yourself and taking good care of yourself pays you back. It will not be immediately. You will feel the energy; the mood is right. It is easy to take care of others because you are taken care of. It does not matter how you treat yourself. It can be the spa or lovely lunch, a trip to the resort,  new shoes, or spending time with your girlfriends or boys. Talking about things that are close to your heart is excellent too. There are so many groups where people with similar hobbies and activities meet each other.

Do not penalize yourself

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It is easy to be mad at yourself if somebody was unhappy with you or if they made harsh remarks about something. Try to relax, breathing in and out. Remember, if you did your best what you could do, it is not your fault. We can not be responsible for others’ actions, for other people’s happiness. At the end of our lives,  we will be accountable for things and activities that we have done. It is best to forgive yourself and forgive others. Smile at yourself, tell yourself  I love you, and let everything go. Treat yourself in the right way.