Humans are created equal as smart and conscious beings. Unfortunately, we live surrounded by the society which puts us in a frame. What is it the frame? The frame is rules, laws, and norms. These structures are different depending on where you live and how you live.
Are You Ready for Change?
Usually, we know what something is wrong. However, we do not move from dead point to change. You would ask what to change? Anything. Lifestyle, friends( not real), job, living place, attitude can change.
Unfortunately, we do not think why it goes in this or different way. We live ordinary lives following friends or families, rules, made by somebody.
We feel what something is wrong, but we stay in the same place. Why?
I call these situations when the analysis becomes paralysis. We give explanations and excuses for everything that disappoints us. We analyze, think about future, make plans, talk about with friends or with family.
Do we move forward? Do we make progress? Most of us are just talkers and visioners who know what we want but… We are afraid if we would start to do something such as start a new job or if we look for healthy relationships, we can burn.
We paralyzed with doubt and lack of courage. We want to change our lives, but something holds us in the same place. Who and what holds us? The opinion of friends or family, who can disapprove our changes and wishes for a better but uncertain future.
What is better: analysis or paralysis?
When is too much of everything, it interferes with all process.
Of course, we must analyze the situation, evaluate present and prepare for future. What is wrong if we take to much time and energy for analysis, till we stop without action paralyzed by imagination.
We can be scared with the outcome.We can imagine all things what would happen if we start everything from scratch or change job or move to another country.
The imagination is a phantasy world. We can know what it will be when we start to do something.
It is better to plan after in-depth analysis and move to action without hesitation. Of course, before it, we must gather facts, have escape plans and plans for success. We must be flexible.
Attention: the Action!
However, without action, we can not predict and be 100% sure what everything will be in this way.
Luckily, if we start doing something, we will see where it leads. We can make changes if something does not work. We can make adjustments if we want to reach particular goals.
We must take charge. The talking and analyzing countless hours and days does not lead anywhere. We will know what we want in reality when we take first steps towards our dreams and goals.
Overanalysis leads to paralysis. Let plan and give the life to our dreams.