Humans are created equal to intelligent and conscious beings. Unfortunately, we live surrounded by a society that puts us in a frame. What is the frame? The frame is rules, laws, and norms. These structures are different depending on where you live and how you live.
Are You Ready for Change?
Usually, we know what something is wrong. However, we do not move from a dead point to change. You would ask what to change? Anything. Lifestyle, friends( not confirmed), job, living place, and attitude can change.
Unfortunately, we do not think why it goes in this or a different way. We live ordinary lives following friends or families, rules made by somebody.
We feel what is wrong, but we stay in the same place. Why?
I call these situations when the analysis becomes paralysis. We give explanations and excuses for everything that disappoints us. We analyze, think about the future, make plans, and talk with friends or family.
Do we move forward? Do we make progress? Most of us are just talkers and visioners who know what we want, but… We are afraid if we would start to do something such as start a new job or if we look for healthy relationships, we can burn.
We are paralyzed with doubt and lack of courage. We want to change our lives, but something holds us in the same place. Who and what keeps us? The opinion of friends or family, who can disapprove of our changes and wishes for a better but uncertain future.
What is better: analysis or paralysis?
When is too much of everything, it interferes with all processes.
Of course, we must analyze the situation, evaluate the present, and prepare for the future what is wrong if we take too much time and energy for analysis, till we stop without action paralyzed by imagination.
We can be scared of the outcome. We can imagine what would happen if we started everything from scratch, changed jobs, or moved to another country.
The imagination is a fantasy world. We can know what it will be when we start to do something.
After in-depth analysis, it is better to plan and move to action without hesitation. Of course, before it, we must gather facts and have escape plans and plans for success. We must be flexible.
Attention: the Action!
However, without action, we can not predict and be 100% sure what everything will be in this way.
Luckily, if we start doing something, we will see where it leads. We can make changes if something does not work. We can make adjustments if we want to reach particular goals.
We must take charge. The talking and analyzing countless hours and days does not lead anywhere. We will know what we want in reality when we seek the first steps toward our dreams and goals.
Overanalysis leads to paralysis. Let’s plan and give life to our dreams.